Dress-ups
The slightly more significant other had a date to meet an old friend for brunch today. They had dinner last night and the old friend wanted to meet the little misses. C had picked clothes for both of them but Little Miss L, in one of her many bouts of stubbornness and feisty independence wasn’t having any of it. She pulled out a skirt and top that she wanted to wear. C is rather stubborn too, so there was a stalemate. I tried to broker a deal, with C conceding to the L-favoured top as long as the white shorts (not the denim skirt) went with it.
I put this to Little Miss L, explaining the concept of compromise. But she still saw that she was being dictated to, so even meeting half-way was still an infringement on her liberty and was therefore inherently unfair. (Articulate little thing, she is.)
So when diplomacy fails, C did what any parent would do under the circs: she bribed her to wear the originally picked-out outfit. There may have been the promise of chocolate or unfeasibly large lollipops in the offing; I don’t know the details. And the C-picked outfit went on and all was right with the world.
Then C walked in on me as I was doing up my shoes…
“You’re not wearing that, are you?”

Do not get me started on the clothing wars of ’07.
I am utterly sick of the time we spend getting ready for events now and have to start our preparations at least 1 hour earlier to accommodate the tears and arguments that ensue every time we need to go out in public in anything other than a school uniform. And even the uniform has issues some days.
I am bloody sick of it.
hahah great story. For some reason, unknown to me, my daughter (12) insists on wearing fleecy track pants out in the hot dry spell we’ve been going through. I really really don’t get it.
Great story tho!
So what was your bribe then so you would wear something more ‘appropriate’???
;)
***C