Dress-ups

The slightly more significant other had a date to meet an old friend for brunch today. They had dinner last night and the old friend wanted to meet the little misses. C had picked clothes for both of them but Little Miss L, in one of her many bouts of stubbornness and feisty independence wasn’t having any of it. She pulled out a skirt and top that she wanted to wear. C is rather stubborn too, so there was a stalemate. I tried to broker a deal, with C conceding to the L-favoured top as long as the white shorts (not the denim skirt) went with it.

I put this to Little Miss L, explaining the concept of compromise. But she still saw that she was being dictated to, so even meeting half-way was still an infringement on her liberty and was therefore inherently unfair. (Articulate little thing, she is.)

So when diplomacy fails, C did what any parent would do under the circs: she bribed her to wear the originally picked-out outfit. There may have been the promise of chocolate or unfeasibly large lollipops in the offing; I don’t know the details. And the C-picked outfit went on and all was right with the world.

Then C walked in on me as I was doing up my shoes…

“You’re not wearing that, are you?”

3 Comments

  1. Bruce says:

    Do not get me started on the clothing wars of ’07.

    I am utterly sick of the time we spend getting ready for events now and have to start our preparations at least 1 hour earlier to accommodate the tears and arguments that ensue every time we need to go out in public in anything other than a school uniform. And even the uniform has issues some days.

    I am bloody sick of it.

  2. Miss Smack says:

    hahah great story. For some reason, unknown to me, my daughter (12) insists on wearing fleecy track pants out in the hot dry spell we’ve been going through. I really really don’t get it.

    Great story tho!

  3. ***C says:

    So what was your bribe then so you would wear something more ‘appropriate’???

    ;)

    ***C

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